I've NCd for this as its sensitive in nature.
I've been a MN regular for a while now and have followed the more feminist/Chad evans the latest one about the presenter and such threads with interest as I have had similar experiences in the past.
On two separate occasions now I've been raped. That's the first time I've ever acknowledged it. I've always blamed myself for getting into stupid situations, being too drunk, dressing inappropriately, generally putting myself at risk in situations that were at best questionable.
Thanks to mumsnet I've realised I was not to blame, I said no, repeatedly, tried to remove myself from the situation but was unable to. I think this has had more of an impact on my life than I've ever really realised and I feel, I don't know, free I suppose?
Having been in some pretty toxic relationships I felt I wasn't worthy of anything more, I met my now husband more by accident than design and he has treated me like a princess from the start and still does many years later, I'm currently pregnant with my first child, a daughter, and I will do everything in my power to make sure she is empowered and doesnt take any shit!
Sorry this is long, I just wanted to thank you all for opening my eyes. Keep up the good work as I'm sure there are many more like me, mores the pity x
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To have taken this long to realise (possibly triggering)
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F1nallycl1cked · 19/11/2014 15:03
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