My husband is a wanker

[onefootinthebed]

Yes I know I know, if you think he is a wanker them he is a wanker,but I need a rant.

I got in from work tonight and my 2 year old ds promptly vomited on my new boots,oh they had been killing my feet all day. Dh is standing there like the wanker he is and shouts well do something.i hadn't even taken my coat off. I then asked dh to sit him on the couch while I removed my coat and boots,as I was taking off my coat and boots my ds wanted to look a his vomit got of the couch and vomited again.

I gave him a choice of cleaning the vomit up or ds, he chose the vomit fair enough I check ds and have a cuddle,who thankfully has now stopped vomiting and is snoring gentler besides me.

After the extra cuddles reading books and getting him to sleep in my bed it all comes out,

Apparently the whole house is a tip and he had to put ds clothes in the washing machine today and the hovering and do the tea.

When I was pregnant with ds I was made redundant when I was 5months,he thinks I should of got a job at no one would of given me a god in y field of work at 5 months pregnant. I would of had to get a job then be trained inthe company's ways by time that would of been completed I would of been going on mat leave. I don't know why he doesn't get it,I'm sick of it being thrown in my face.

He is usually lovely but I hate coming home on a Saturday,he goes to the care home to see his mum, then I get the blame for everything.

I know my grammar is awful but I'm so annoyed I don't care.........sorry.

[MustTidyUpMustTidyUp]

Sounds like a shit bag.

[onefootinthebed]

I prefer wanker,it annoys him that and prick I don't think shitbag would bother him,I see were your going though !!

[AgentZigzag]

'He is usually lovely but I hate coming home on a Saturday,he goes to the care home to see his mum, then I get the blame for everything.'

Your DH is sometimes a wanker, and there's usually a good reason for it.

He's had a shit day, it wasn't a great homecoming for you, things got out of hand.

I would cut him some slack, especially if you can see how visiting his mum is affecting him, it's not an excuse but it is a legit reason to be a bit messed up.

Does he ever talk to you about how it affects him?

Don't rise to the bait if he bringing up what happened when you were 5 months pregnant, he's only using it because he wants to press your buttons I do the same, just don't play the game.

[ChippingInAutumnLover]

What the fuck is his problem?

Does he think having a penis means he shouldn't do those things?

Does he think you should be doing them remotely from work?

Tell him if he wants a 1950's wife he can act like a 1950's husband and earn enough to keep you all! But he can't have it both ways, prick.

[AgentZigzag]

'I prefer wanker,it annoys him that and prick'

You know what buttons to press and can't help yourself either.

I'm not saying that's a bad thing, it's inevitable if you live with anyone for any length of time, but you can't call him on it but do the same yourself unless you brazen it out like I would.