My friend has received treatment for PND after her second child and thankfully is coming out of the worst of it now. However, her husband is now getting counselling for male post natal depression and her response to this was complete anger. She resents him claiming to have what she had which she claims was due to a hormonal imbalance and can't take him seriously.
I haven't said this to her but I think he may well be genuine and deserving of support. I don't know him ever so well but I find it entirely possible that he's feeling as sleep deprived, shell shocked, trapped and overwhelmed as she is. Yes it might not be hormonal but surely the huge upheaval that having a child brings could send either parent into depression? I know health visitors tend to look for it more in the mother and maybe this means men get overlooked. I know this couple have money worries too and that pressure must affect him too.
Am I being unreasonable to think his mental suffering could be as real as hers?
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Inboxer · 30/10/2014 20:59
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