This could be a long story....
ok background. My dad died 8 years ago. Me and mun have never been that close, but this seemed to pull her closer to my sister and further from me. My sister dictates her life and she seems happy to do this.
A few months ago mum put what was our family home on the market. I thought this was a good thing, the house was too big for her and she said she wanted a bungalow as she worried about the stairs in the future (she already finds some stairs difficult). She has now had an offer excepted on a house (with stairs!) Directly opposite my sisters house.
I feel she may as well cut me off all together. She has my DCs twice a month so I can work, but now shes moving further, I will have to find alternative. No big deal, but its another example of how she doesn't think of me.
I am on antidepressants. My marriage is inrrecovery following my husband having an affair end of last year (to which she wasn't supportive of me).
I just feel unlovable :-(
But I feel torn. Should I just be happy my mum is happy and get on with it. Or aibu to feel like no body gives a s* about me?
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to be feeling like this about my mum
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MilkshakeMonkey · 28/08/2014 08:48
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