As background, I started a new job recently and was made sales manager of a group of three salespeople. One of them in particular, let's call her H, was very unhappy as she believes she should have had the position as manager however my manager has indicated that her performance, particularly her achievement against her sales target, was well below average so she wasn't even considered for the role.
I had joint meetings with her today in her home city and arrived last night. She was supposed to meet me for dinner (it was just the two of us) at 7.45 pm but arrived at 8.30 pm without any explanation or apology. As soon as we sat down and had ordered our food she then left for a 10 minute telephone conversation, after eating our main course she then disappeared for another 10 minutes. The meal was probably one of the most uncomfortable of my life as she was aggressive and belittling throughout.
Finally, she was very confrontational about paying the bill, as whilst she was correct that the most senior person should pay, she has a company credit card and I don't (waiting for it to arrive). I basically had to order her to pay.
The final straw was today when we had our final meeting, she got into the taxi put her earphones in to start listening to music and proceeded to ignore me for the twenty minutes it took to get the train station.
This is even without the fact that in the seven weeks I have been her manager she has basically refused to co-operate and will not supply me with any of the data or metrics I need to ensure she is doing her job.
I know there are people with far worse problems in the world but I'd be interested in people's perspective in how they would have handled it.
In summary, new job, under-performing and un-cooperative team member displaying aggressive and rude behaviour. WWYD?
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Garcia10 · 26/06/2014 20:02
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