I am constantly asking dd, in year 6 to pack her school bag the night before. She usually says, "Yes, I have", when she has not. This week, I had a note from school saying she has forgotten to hand her homework in on time, twice in the past week. (Which I know she has completed but forgotten to take in.)
This morning, I gave her a 10 min warning we were leaving, then a 5 min warning, then a 2 min, then it's time to go. She had been up for an hour at this point.
Then she "remembered" she needed her swim kit (every Tuesday so not a one off) and started arguing that she was not ready to leave yet. I got in the car with her sibling (who needs delivering to a different school) and beeped the horn to tell her I was about to leave. She came out (without her swim kit.) Then in the car she had another meltdown because she remembered she also didn't have her netball kit which she needs for an after school club. She will not be allowed to play without trainers.
She thought I was the meanest mother ever because, I have refused to go home, gather up the items and deliver them back to school. (I'm working from home today, so could in theory). I told her today will be the day she remembers as a disaster and will, from now on, be sure pack her bag the night before.
I think I've done the right thing, but I feel so rubbish. I think it's a wake up call she needs. But as she went into school she was glassy eyed and had a wobbly voice.
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to not return to dd's school with her list of forgotten items?
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jonnyappleseed · 25/03/2014 09:15
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