Ds3 played football this week against another local team, U14, ds3 is captain, not sure if relevant but adding just in case.
DS1-18 came to watch with dh, all was well, so I thought, ds1 playing with his phone whilst watching the match, nothing new there.
The following night was Ds3's parents evening and as I waited with ds3 a teacher came up to him, ignored me completely but said to ds3 ' did you get it sorted?'. DS3 nodded and replied 'yes, no problem'.
When I asked what that was all about, ds3 was uncomfortable looking. It turns out ds1 had sent a negative tweet about the opposing school that ds3 was playing against the previous evening. It had been seen by staff from the school and the Head from that school phoned the PE department at ds3's school and complained, our school recognised ds1 and told DS3 to tell ds1 to delete it. Ds3 did this and ds1 did this but was reluctant and was adamant the school were over reacting. At that point I knew nothing about this conversation.
I was very unhappy that ds1 had tweeted this and made my feelings clear to him when we got in from Parents Evening and told him what a pillock he was, blah, blah , blah.
I was happy to let it rest, although pissed off that school spoke to ds3 ,who incidentally knew nothing about ds1's tweet until his teacher spoke to him about it earlier in the day before parents evening. It now turns out that at school today ds3 was taken out of class and spoken to again by the PE department asking whether ds3 had deleted the tweet.
Ds3 is out footballing and I haven't spoken to him yet.
Would you be pissed off and phone the school to speak to the PE department about involving ds3 in something that frankly had sod all to do with him other than be related to a pleb of an 18 year old brother?
I'm unsure what to do, should I just leave it?
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YouStayClassySanDiego · 13/03/2014 17:01
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