It's probably all been done to death what with the truancy rules & all but would you consider this acceptable for a school to ask and need?
Right my two dd aged 5yo & 3 1/2 yo are to go to speech therapy sessions with me once a week on tues mornings and the odd fri afternoon.
School was given a photocopy of these appointments for 5yo dd as they require proof for all absences or fines may be issued.
Anyhow all well and good but then speech therapist now wants to see 3 1/2 dd on the end of elder dd session so I allow her to miss nursery after phoning the academy.
So I do this 4 weeks in a row with no complaints from school.... until last week when I took dd 5yo and 3 1/2 yo out of nursery/school one fri morning a hr and a bit before appointment (I did phone to arrange in morning although proof for dd5yo is there) and secretary starts raging at me that as I took them so early she will not authorise the afternoon although Im on foot so takes me good while to get to appointment, aswell as feed a very small baby. Secretary said it doesn't matter and she will be seeing welfare officer to talk. Fwiw my dc are only ever off for illness & appointments
Then today upon bringing dd 5yo back to school, I get told that my nursery child needs proof of where she has been. For god sakes where do they think I have been, gran bloody canaria or something.
The school knew of these appointments why can they not take my word for it that my nursery child is joining dd 5yo for speech therapy!
The therapy ended today for the next cohort in june, yet the secretary seems certain I should provide proof although the apps are finished and they never actually added her to the appointments letter. So now I have to phone up and get the speech therapy people to provide proof of appointments we have already had.
Aibu to find this so over the top?
and im right in the fact I cannot be fined for a child under 5 aren't I?
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Aibu to see this as pedantic?
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pumpkinsweetie · 11/03/2014 12:26
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