Today is the 10yr anniversary of the death of H and his brother's Dad.
Each year, we usually all meet up & mark the occasion with a drink or a meal etc.
A couple of weeks ago, we invited BIL to come to dinner today, and we said we'd cook a dish which their Dad used to make, as a way to remember him & mark the occasion.
He said that he'd love to, and to remind him nearer the time. H reminded him on Thurs, he said yes deffo still on for it.
The dish requires a lot of prep, in fact I had to buy the meat a week prior, and make a cure mixture that it sits in for the week, so it's quite involved.
So, less than 2hours before he's due to come over, we got a phone call - he's met some woman online on Weds on POF (he broke up with his long term g/f just before Xmas), and so he's not going to come to ours after all (even tho the meat is now already cooking) he's going to meet up with this woman instead.
I'm feeling pretty pissed off at being let down at the last minute - especially considering the occasion and the amount of effort that has gone into preparing the meal.
I told H that I feel annoyed, and he just shrugged.
Maybe I'm overreacting.
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To be quite annoyed with H's brother?
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bullinthesea · 09/03/2014 16:48
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