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AIBU to want to high-five him in the face with a chair?

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scarffiend Wed 19-Feb-14 19:49:46

Working with my boss at the desk facing mine this afternoon, all personal belongings still on my desk. Her boss comes along to ask her something, stands at my desk then proceeds to turn my (personal) phone screen on and read the messages that I hadn't yet opened!! AIBU or is it wrong of him to disrespect my privacy in this way, regardless of how high in the company he might be???

AgaPanthers Wed 19-Feb-14 19:51:27

Do you normally sit at your desk doing personal stuff?

BakerStreetSaxRift Wed 19-Feb-14 19:52:16

Eh, yes! Why didn't you take out back off him?

Put a lock on your screen.

yegodsandlittlefishes Wed 19-Feb-14 19:53:02

Get a swipe lock app, then people can't do that.

scarffiend Wed 19-Feb-14 19:55:00

No, I check my phone when it goes but don't sit all day texting or anything. And it was locked, thankfully - but there were a couple of preview messages that had come through since I had been away from my desk. And sadly, my 'outrage' button is on mute so I just watched him looking shocked and saying nothing!

OldBagWantsNewBag Wed 19-Feb-14 19:55:53

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

procrastinatingagain Wed 19-Feb-14 19:59:36

You can change the settings so you don't get the preview. Not that you should have to though! Maybe he did it absent mindedly??

scarffiend Wed 19-Feb-14 20:04:34

No, it was deliberate - he read the preview and smiled to himself, then me.

Jolleigh Wed 19-Feb-14 20:40:22

And you just let him?! What on earth? Superior or not, you should have said something.

LizzieVereker Wed 19-Feb-14 20:42:55

Why on Earth would he do that? Did he think it was his phone, perhaps he has the same one? Did he say anything? How odd.

NewtRipley Wed 19-Feb-14 20:46:45

Does he do other power-trippy stuff like that? - standing too close etc? What an arse. Hide the phone and accidentally roll your chair over his foot

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