First-time poster here, but I have been watching AIBU as everyone on the threads gives great advice so am giving it a go :)
(Young poster here!) I get the bus with a certain friend A every day. I have done so for about 3 years. She is lovely, and we get the bus home together too.
For the last half a year or so, she has chosen to take another bus which goes on a slightly different route to my own (so is not impossible for me to take but is slower and "goes round the houses" so can make me late) She takes this bus as another friend B does so, and there are one or two boys who get said bus that they enjoy staring at!
Recently friend A has been berating me with comments such as "oh, why don't you get the bus with me anymore?" or "are you getting bus B home today?".
How can I express to her that I am happy getting the bus route I have always got without offending her? She seems to assume that I am opting out of a journey with her, but to me it seems as if she chose to get the other bus. Today I tried to talk it through but all she said was "you never see me anymore, why don't you come home with me?" and "you are forcing me to choose between booksandmorebooks and friend B."
Any advice is appreciated, :)
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booksbooksandmorebooks · 12/02/2014 16:58
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