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AIBU?

to feel so disrespected.

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clockwatching77 · 08/02/2014 20:24

So Ii have posted before about childcare, housework, dh, s acceptance of dd etc.
Only last week I posted as he left 2 of our dc in soiled/we overnight nappies when I was out with eldest. For an hour.
Well the same thing happened today with one child. I was gone for over 2 hours.
He than had the cheek to accuse me of sitting on my arse all day whilst he is out at work. 3dc strangely do not look after themselves
Just don't feel we can have a conver4 without him have a go at me.
So fed up.
Aibu

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whattoWHO · 08/02/2014 20:27

It sounds to me like you're being disrespected.
But without reading your previous threads, or hearing his version, maybe he's feeling disrespected too?

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RevoltInParadise · 08/02/2014 20:34

Ok, so having no background to this...if he left your children like that once, why leave them with him again?

And, I think if it is at the point where you don't trust your dc dad to care for them while you are out, then you need to look at leaving.

If you leave, look at getting the neglect documented so that you are not in a position to leave the cd with him for contact access to get neglected. You need to pit the dc first.

Disclaimer, I have not read previous posts and have just gone off the op.

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Littleen · 08/02/2014 22:52

Read your previous post, and still think you need to have a serious chat with him about childcare, potentially involve someone professional. I would do that asap, and if no improvement he's got to go!

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Iwannalaylikethisforever · 08/02/2014 23:28

Can you do nappies before you go?
Yes it's fucking annoying
But at least you can be sure it's done
Hopefully nappies will be a thing if the past before too long
His attitude is shitty, I do remember your last posts

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clockwatching77 · 09/02/2014 20:15

I guess I probably should have got up earlier. It's so damm annoying though. I got up, got dc breakfast, got baby dressed, chased ds to get up. I had literaly no time to deal with middle child who was supposed to be going out with dh. This subsequently got cancelled so he apparently asked ds once to geti stuff to do pull up. Although ds denied he even asked.