I am turning 30 soon. I am receiving a lot of sympathy, as well as the occasional "still single, I see" and even one "past 34, babies are pretty much a no go"!
Even those people who are not baby obsessed seem to feel that my youth has come to an end and it is all downhill now. The dye of my life is cast and I have to put up with it.
Thing is, I am really looking forward to the next few years. Whether I find true love, or not, or have a baby, or not - I feel much happier at this stage of my life than I ever have before.
In my 20's I was generally insecure and stressed. I was constantly trying to climb the next greasy pole and please people who I didn't necessarily like, only because I was too unsure to do anything else.
Now, it feels different. I know myself and who I want to be. I will not needlessly spend time doing things that do not make me happy. I have a job that I enjoy, but I have realised that my real ambition is to be a comedy writer. I am going to do everything I can to achieve that goal.
I have a little more disposable income, which I fully intend to spend doing things I want to do, if or until I have a family. I really feel like the next few years could be some of the most satisfying of my life.
I know that everything is circumstance dependent -but I would love to hear people's experiences of life post 30!
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MarchingFrog · 11/01/2014 22:19
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