happy new year ladies! :) hope everyone had a lovely christmas!
Currently off on mat leave til august, ehich will be full year off. As ive mentioned elsewhere on mn i work in the csa :( due to getting pg i moved in with dp, to his (mortgaged) home, which is nearly 70 miles away from my office now. Im hoping and praying they will be able to help get a transfer to an office nearer home as even if i was only doing a 3 day week i couldnt afford the fuel expenses on top of our other bills etc. So, i am enrolled onto a part time course starting in feb to allow me to work in dps performance centre (gym) taking booty camp classes etc. I also am trained to do hair though never formally trained for it.
I had intended on contacting my team leader at work next week to arrange to see hr dept about transfer etc. I do not intend to not work as id hate relying on dp for money.
This morning, his sister was in getting her hair blowdried and she started asking me what i was doing about returning to work, have i sorted transfer etc. I told her i was for looking into it all next week, that i had a few options also as i did not want to be going back to that office as too far. She then said oh but you will have to go back if you cant get moved until such times you get sorted, you may go to jobcentre here too and see.
She made me feel soo uncomfortable and basically shit for even thinking about not going back there after mat leave finishes, it seemed to me that not working is not an option (not that it is for me cos i cant afford it) aibu to think its none of her business? And not her place to be pressuring me about work? Thjs is the 2nd time she has brought it up aswell, so god knows whats been said to dp about it. Really i feel that its for me to sort out and a discussion to be had with dp and not her. Sil takes far too much of an interest in all her brothers affairs (theres 4 brothers).
Sorry its long! Thanks if still reading! Xx
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wispa31 · 04/01/2014 16:42
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