Sorry but I need the traffic.
My dp is soooo worried.
His mum is in IC .Had bowel cancer,septicaemia and an op that went wrong.Getting better but lost lots of weight(apparently normal if you have food on a drip). Tumor sent away ages ago,no results yet apparently.
We live 5 hours away and mil says she doesn't want to know anything,Fil puts his head in the sand to cope so doesn't ask.
Sil said they mentioned cells on her pelvis but they won't give info unless the patient is there.
Went up this weekend but doctors were too busy to talk.They don't like talking over the phone.
Said parents in law are in their 70/80s and due to us being so far away we need to know more.It's like Chinese whispers and making a horrible situation 10 x more stressful for dp. He is imagining the worst.He needs to plan.
Is this normal and do we have to just suck it up?What should we do?
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To ask if it's normal for families to get very little info when a lo is in intensive care?
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Retropear · 15/12/2013 22:34
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