A set of inlaws have three dc. Quite close in age, all above 5. (being purposefully vague)
Every Christmas we all go away for the festive period. It's expected that we go. Sometimes it is enjoyable. .others not so.
My dc is of age (5)where this Christmas they will be fully aware of it all and understand the whole thing. Really looking forward to it.
The problem is that despite everyone knowing its all funded via credit rather than hard earned and saved cash, they dc are spoilt. Literally hundreds of presents. So many presents infact that the dc volunteer to spread them out over the day as they eventually get tired wading their way through their individual ginormous piles of gifts.
This is not something I'm aiming for with my dc. Gifts are carefully considered and I'd say this year our dc has around ten. Two large items and a few bits and bobs. I think this is acceptable. Except this year ds is going to clock inlaws dc piles upon piles of gifts and it's something I can see causing jealousy and Issue in future if not this year.
how do i deal with this. Aside from the fact its always made me cringe a bit (but its their kids..their life etc) I'm not sure how to avoid ds asking or demanding more and having to explain that gifts is not what Christmas is about.. aibu to be feeling this anxious about it?
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Dietfail · 12/11/2013 18:12
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