An old friend of DH's is getting married again next year. They are quite old friends from their teenage years, but don't see each other regularly nowadays. The friend now lives some distance away, and we haven't met the woman that he is marrying.
We have received a 'Save the Date' card for their wedding, and it turns out that the wedding is child-free. We have two ds's, and the wedding is on a Sunday in a location about three hours drive away from us. This would have been a bit of a hassle in terms of taking time off work and farming the kids out to my mum, who would have to have had them overnight and got them both to different schools on the Monday morning, but was something we could have managed.
However, DS2 (aged 9) has now brought home a letter about his school trip away, which turns out to be on the Monday after the wedding. He will be going on the Monday morning and not getting back until Friday evening, and he has never slept away from home for more than one night. He will need to be at school on the Monday at six in the morning. Apart from the fact that getting ds2 up and at school for this time seems to be too much to ask my seventy-year old mum, I just really want to be there to make sure he is sorted and see him off.
So, WIBU to not go to the wedding? I have told DH that I have no objections to him going by himself, and he has agreed, but I can tell he is a bit miffed that we won't be going together.
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eleflump · 12/05/2013 16:47
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