DP and I have been together many years and have an understanding that we'll get married when we're finished having children and they're all old enough to enjoy/participate in the day. I'm not entirely sure he plans to propose, I think he just assumes we've agreed about the wedding and that's enough. I don't particularly want him to propose - I know he loves me so it won't prove anything, I hate being the centre of attention and it'd make me feel awkward plus he's rubbish at surprises so it's likely I'd know in advance or have to pretend to be surprised.
I'm great at organising surprises, he would never expect me to propose and I know it'd mean a lot to him if I organised something special for him. AIBU to do this, is it a bit silly?
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to propose to DP because i know I'd do it well?
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LittleLisa78 · 06/05/2013 23:40
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