than adolescent ones? I have a couple of very close friends of 30+ years who I have always had a great relationship with. I also have some 'new' friends of around 4/5 years since the DCs started school, small village so most in the same friendship group. I like all of them and we've had some great laughs and days/nights out. Now there is a bit of a split and a falling out between the woman I am closest to and a couple of the others and its all becoming a bit difficult. I am not a confrontational person at all and I hate all the drama that seems to be happening at the moment. I feel totally stuck in the middle of it all. I wasnt involved in the event that caused it all and i do feel my friend was treated badly but both of the other women have always been perfectly nice to me. My friend expects me to have nothing more to do with them but it all feels so childish. I don't want to be a shit friend but feel that I am 46 not 16 and I just can't be arsed with the drama. Should I keep myself to myself for a bit til things get better?
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