Not a huge problem by anyone's standards, but it's happening most nights now and it's doing my head in!
We live in a little village. DS2 has lots of mates but they're scattered around the countryside, only one is local - let's call him Fred. Fred is a nice kid and he and DS have known each other for years, but it appears that DS is rather more keen on Fred than vice-versa.
It happens thus ... DS askes Fred on the bus home if he wants to meet up after school - Fred says he'll go home and ask his Mum if it's OK and then ring DS - then he doesn't. DS sits by the phone all evening. If he rings Fred, Fred says he'll ask and ring back - then doesn't.
If he doesn't want to hang out all he has to do is say he's busy, it's the keeping DS on tenterhooks that's annoying me!
They're both 12 and Fred comes round one night after school on a regular basis as his Mum works late so they do spend time together. I have every sympathy if Fred just wants to chill in the evening and not socialise but I wish he'd stop giving out the mixed messages to poor old DS!
Any thoughts?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
More of a WWYD - Pining DS and non-phoning mate ...
5 replies
Fecklessdizzy · 01/05/2013 11:26
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.