I've been lurking for a while, thoroughly enjoying the MN banter, but have been prompted to make my first post following an incident yesterday. Hoping for some UK impartial advice.
Have been talking to an elderly neighbour at the bus stop for a few months. He seemed very nice, if a bit over-friendly, but I put that down to perhaps loneliness, perhaps cultural differences (he's Malaysian). Anyway, he invites himself over yesterday morning, so I bring him in for a cup of tea. He is initially sitting on one sofa, me on another. He says he is struggling to hear me, can I sit next to him. Fine. Then he says he's noticed my DS plays with my hair sometimes, so he starts fondling my hair and says "look DS I'm playing with mummy's hair, what do you think of that???". This is followed by a few other weird things (won't go into detail now as already looooong!). Then he gets up to, gives me a very strong hug and a kiss on the cheek. After a while I try to pull away, then he forces my head back towards him, holds me very tight, and says "just give me one kiss darling, just one kiss" and basically forces himself on me with his tongue out. All while my 2 year old is watching.
I know I should have had it out with him at the time, but was too shocked and just wanted him out the house, so just bundled him out without saying anything. Now DP thinks I should make a report to the police, but I feel a bit daft reporting a 70 year old man! Though had it been a younger man holding me so uncomfortably (enough to bruise slightly) and kissing me, I think I would call the police. I just don't know what response is appropriate.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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VotePedroPony · 30/04/2013 14:24
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