Hi,
This is my first post so bear with the essential background info! My husband works away, 6 weeks on and 6 weeks at home. My parents live 2 hours away and work full time but would drop anything if needed. DH's parents live 5 mins away and don't work (never have but still manage 5 holidays abroad a year including at least one Caribbean cruise!!)
Last time my husband was in leave, I was off work sick. They started calling every f#%*ing day. They phoned every day. This is something I have had to put up with for the 10 years together but not to this extent. However DH now saw it first hand an eventually hannd a word. Problem is, in the four weeks he's had 'a word' everything has reverted back to how it is. I have to constantly answer the phone and if I don't, she rings four or five times (house phone and mobile), text an then phone my husband in Middle East stating I have pined X amount if times and she's nt replied. I then have to deal with the 'just called round' which has not stopped. I really don't know whether it is the hormones or I am rapidly going to lose it one day ( if I do, there will be no going back, my temper is slow burning but vile).
I don't feel they're seeing if I'm ok but just checking on me because they don't have anyone or anything else to occupy themselves with (not very popular). Problem being, I want to resolve tis prior to baby arrivi g (due in sept 2013) and put boundaries in place but previous attempts haven't worked.
Sorry for rambling but I'm really keen for any in law advice to stop this becoming a problem. Xxx
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Babycino81 · 07/04/2013 20:23
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