I realise this sounds really childish, but I feel slightly upset about my DDs (aged 4 and 2.5) giving me the cold shoulder this morning as I left for work. They refused cuddles and kisses, and clung to grandma instead who is visiting.
Do your children do this?
It makes me reflect on all my parenting failures: not playing with them enough, being distracted by other things when at home, shouting etc etc.
I also feel a bit jealous of my mother getting all their attention and cuddles when she is around. Now, I love my girls and am obviously happy for all the love and attention they get from other people and wouldn't want it any other way, but...I feel somewhat pettily resentful about them "preferring" my mother who in some ways was not so brilliant when I was a child, and is now a granny who can do no wrong.
Of course I don't let the children see if I'm upset, but...
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MarianneM · 04/04/2013 12:03
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