I've name changed for this one. I'm posting on here as I couldn't face talking to friends about this.
I have just found my husband's laptop open on a porn site. He has an account with credit card payment details and the history says he's been looking at this stuff for the entire time we have been together. Even the honeymoon period.
He has little or no sex drive with me and it's something we've had big talks and tears over in the past.
I don't know what to think. Is he just not attracted to me? Is he having an affair? He has a bank account I don't have access to and travels frequently for work.
Or is this just something he uses to masturbate with? If he has the urge why don't we have more of a sex life? I know I should be asking him all this and I will but for tonight he is asleep (sleepless night with one of the children last night) and I just feel so sad.
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to feel sad my husband wants porn and not me?
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higherground · 02/04/2013 21:42
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