Me and dp budget and stay in and manage to feed our family and pay the bills, just about.
Some people eat takeaways and go out and then run out of money for food at the end of the month and get given money to tide them over.
Me and dp saved before having kids so we could buy necessities. Some spent while they could and then couldnt afford to buy necessities so were bought them.
Me and dp worked out that to pay childcare wouldnt be worth it so im a sahm, others went back to work as they "cant afford to stay home" but then realised they didnt earn enough to pay the childcare and the mortgage so are given free childcare.
feel like me and dp have always been sensible and saved up and budgetted and never just bought what we fancy, but some people seem to have what they want and expect others to pay for what they need.
i suppose iabu because its none of my business if family choose to give them money/childcare but we were never offered anything because we manage ourselves and didnt have nights out/fancy holidays.
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to think some people are purposefully disorganised to force family to help them?
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familyfun · 27/03/2013 13:35
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