never done this before so will try and keep it simple
our sons girlfriend is lovely and we genuinely love her but we feel a little put upon lately.
the two nights per week we agreed to let her stay over have turned into three and four now and we are finding it a little hard going as we never get the house to ourselves and every weekend is spoken for. not to mention the extra mouth to feed etc. she never contributes financially to takeaways etc but is on a very good wage.
just lately she has taken to raiding the fridge and cupboard when she feels like it and it using food we thought we had for ourselves and set menus etc - on top she is gradually just putting her washing in the laundry and instead of me having less work as our children grow - my workload is increasing. when she is here - she never helps me around the house and literally leaves a trail of mess everywhere she goes and i have to tidy it all up.
like i said we love her but all this is starting to grate on our nerves and we fear it will spoil our relationship.
any advice would be greatly appreciated
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MINNACK · 25/03/2013 19:56
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