Mine and OH's friend converted to Islam a year ago. It's changed his life for the better, he married a lovely woman and he's very happy.
The problem I have, is that whenever we visit, he's thrusting literature at us and demanding to know when OH is going to read the Koran. OH said he'd read it when the friend first converted, and has been slowly doing so since. But, as he's explained to the friend, it's not on his list of most important things to do. He reads it whenever he has some downtime, but to be honest, it's not something he particularly finds important, being that he doesn't plan to convert...
Friend knows where I stand on organised religion, knows I am very happy for him and would never judge him by my own values, but that I don't have any religious inclination whatsoever and doesn't push it on me as much as OH. OH believes that when the friend finally understands that he isn't going to convert, that friend will distance himself from OH. The friend has hinted as such, saying things like "I don't know how much longer we can go on without you having read the entire Koran" "You need to make a bigger effort, once you read it fully you'll understand"
OH hasn't said he won't convert, but he hasn't said it's likely, either. He's just told friend that he'll keep an open mind and learn more about the religion, which he is.
I know this is a sensitive issue. I am prepared to be flamed. But AIBU to expect to visit a friend without an 'intervention'?
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to not want our newly converted religious friend to try and convert us?
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Theicingontop · 19/02/2013 08:10
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