My dh and i get along very well with our neighbours. We have known them for about 3 years and beginning of this year each had our first baby within weeks of each other. Our babies are different (as no 2 babies are the same) and there are things that went smoothly for them that we struggled with and vice versa.
We share a lot of our experiences honestly and openly and knowing that you are not the only one tht sometimes struggles has really helped us on many ocassions over the past year.
Today dh went over to their place to check on the husband and to ask uf he wanted to joinus for dinner. We had previously mentiobed he was more than welcome to join us whilst his wife and son were away over christmas. We just wanted to make sure he knew he could come over any time he wanted.
As dh knocks and waits at the door for him to open, he hears him on the phone. He is just about to walk away when he hears neighbour say: she was born on .... followed by our dd's date of birth. This grabs my dh attention. Neighbour the continues by mentioning several things we struggling with (i.e that we dont like going to far as dh is ina phase where she hates sitting in car seat), etc and how him and his wife are so grateful their child isn't like our dd.
My dh was so disappointed by all the comparing that was being done and by the fact that things we had shared with them, were now being relayed to all their friends.
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BubblesAndBeans · 25/12/2012 20:53
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