DD is 3 and DS is 1. On the way to nursery this morning dd was in the back putting on her deely boppers and kept stabbing herself in the face with them. I asked her to give me them and that I would put them on for her once we got to nursery (4 mins). She threw them at me and screamed and shouted hysterically setting off ds into crying fit. I pulled the car over and told her to stop shouting, she carried on and baby is hiccuping and getting himself into a right state. I shouted at her to shut up (yes crap I know), she carried on, I told her if she didn't stop screaming I would put the deely boppers out of the window and of course this sent her over the edge. I have told her before that if she screams in the car I will pull over and she can stand on the side of the road until she calms down, I have never followed through on this..... until this morning
So I got out and got her out of the car seat and took her out of the car and walked her around to the side of the road and stood her way back from the road and told her to stand still while I shut the car door. I saw her look terrified and I think she thought I was going to get back in the car. This is a very very quiet country road. I went back to her and knelt down and calmly explained that I have got her out of the car because it is dangerous to have her screaming in the car and I don't like it, that it is unacceptable and she has upset her brother, I told her I was not going to leave her and I had just shut the door. I walked her back into the car and strapped her in and tried to soothe baby. Baby soothed and toddler quiet we carried on the drive. When we got to nursery I gave her a hug and kiss and told her I knew she thought I was leaving her and that I would never ever leave her and I told her I loved her. Dropped her off and she went in a bit pale and sad looking. I feel absolutely monstrous.
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monkeynuts123 · 14/12/2012 14:15
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