Ok dpi the mooncup incident is gonna haunt me for some time but I find that kind of amusing. But when I ask for advice on buying DP shoes and get told not to bother he's a douchebag, I just wish sometimes, just sometimes, that people wouldn't dredge up other stuff and just stick to the topic at hand!
Oh OP all youv've gained by this thread is pointing out to everyone tyou have other threads going, in which your DP is a cunt, so get what ever shoes you want, but don't expect people to not have a brain, or think for themselves 'this is a bit weird' if you truly don't want to be recognised, name change! HTH (hope that helps!)
Well don't moan on here about it, you made your decision to stay with a cut. You can name change just for a thread than change back that's what some people do
This is why I name change whenever Im in a pickle that I need help with. I love MN and their advice to me has been priceless, but I dont want it under my regular name for ever reason you have stated.
I've not read any of the other threads but thanks to this thread I know you're buying shoes for an arse. I'm very glad to be up to speed with the whole situation.
Fine ok, buy him the shoes. Ignore the warning signs that neither of you are happy, don't address your self esteem issues before entering a relationship (I looked at the other active thread in AIBU). I do hope you find happiness in whatever form it comes to you. But I will be hiding this and the other one.
Wind people up? No it was a genuine thread. In RL if someone told me they were having problems in their relationship and I thought they should leave the bastard, I might tell her that, but I wouldn't announced it in front of everyone when she then said he'd done something nice. Even if other people invested time, I wouldn't suddenly say actually he's a numpty.
I think this thread was an attempt to wind people up so I'd go with the latter of Artex suggestions. Again, my first point. If you have a problem on a thread, bring it up there. This is the equivalent of talking behind people's backs.
Someone noticing on a thread that you have two active threads that seem contradictory isn't bad etiquette. It's at attempt to protect those who may give a lot to you emotionally as they try to help and perhaps a nudge towards that they shouldn't bother.
