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Ah, Hope That Helps!
When someone mentions royality and trolling, I was thinking it meant Her Trolling Highness

Oh OP all youv've gained by this thread is pointing out to everyone tyou have other threads going, in which your DP is a cunt, so get what ever shoes you want, but don't expect people to not have a brain, or think for themselves 'this is a bit weird' if you truly don't want to be recognised, name change! HTH (hope that helps!)

Sometimes is relevant. Sometimes its not.

I have no idea about a shoes thread. But if he asked for shoes get him the ones he wants?

People may have felt it was relevant as on Sunday you thought he was a cunt and was dumping him.

Cunt not cut

Well don't moan on here about it, you made your decision to stay with a cut. You can name change just for a thread than change back that's what some people do

This is why I name change whenever Im in a pickle that I need help with. I love MN and their advice to me has been priceless, but I dont want it under my regular name for ever reason you have stated.

Sounds like a storm in a mooncup!

<gets coat>

Depends who did the FB recommending really

popular or "attention seeking ?

You made FB Flo, so you must be popular

Anyfucker

Which thread is it? It's kind of the best friend analogy someone mentioned upthread. People are only pointing it out because they care.

I've not read any of the other threads but thanks to this thread I know you're buying shoes for an arse. I'm very glad to be up to speed with the whole situation.

Buy yourself some shoes

Some "fuck off cunt" shoes

That'll sort out all your issues

Fine ok, buy him the shoes. Ignore the warning signs that neither of you are happy, don't address your self esteem issues before entering a relationship (I looked at the other active thread in AIBU). I do hope you find happiness in whatever form it comes to you. But I will be hiding this and the other one.

Re a good Xmas present - what about tickets to a music or comedy gig that he would like - go for a meal then on to the gig

Artex I don't know most of them!

Wind people up? No it was a genuine thread. In RL if someone told me they were having problems in their relationship and I thought they should leave the bastard, I might tell her that, but I wouldn't announced it in front of everyone when she then said he'd done something nice. Even if other people invested time, I wouldn't suddenly say actually he's a numpty.

I think this thread was an attempt to wind people up so I'd go with the latter of Artex suggestions. Again, my first point. If you have a problem on a thread, bring it up there. This is the equivalent of talking behind people's backs.

Someone noticing on a thread that you have two active threads that seem contradictory isn't bad etiquette. It's at attempt to protect those who may give a lot to you emotionally as they try to help and perhaps a nudge towards that they shouldn't bother.

That is what a troll is.

I don't agree with Artex though, that would mean most of MN are trolls or royalty.

Some are just loons who should NC.

I thought a troll was someone who made up lies? Or wasn't being themselves. Or deliberately wound people up or something?