What is reasonable/unreasonable in your house hold???
my lovely dd is nearly 8 months old. I'm still on maternity leave but not for much longer. Obv daytime is my time with dd but i am at the point now where i could just do with a proper break in the evenings or weekends.
Dh does look after her for a couple of hours on a sat or Sunday so i can see my horse but that's about it. Used to be couple of hours sat and Sunday morning but increasingly it seems to end up being just sat or Sunday.
I think its the fact he never offers. I always have to tell him in advance he'll have dd for a bit and suggest things for them to do. Inevitable he always almost ends up taking dd to see his mum. But they never go anywhere, he just takes dd to see her. They Will always be home by the time i get back. When dd was tiny he used to say he couldn't wait till dd was a bit older and he could take her out for the day..... Hmm chance would be a fine thing.
Would just love him to say " me and dd got plans this weekend" or something.
Last weekend i took dd away to my parents all weekend. So he had all weekend to himself. This weekend I'll be lucky to get 2 hours to myself.
I Will add dd is ebf on demand and never taken a bottle but has some solids now and Will take a cup of ebm so quite capable of spending a bit of time away from me....
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feekerry · 29/11/2012 09:35
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