last night I put a post on FB about something that has happened to me recently regarding XP and his usual twattishness(won't go into detaila s its a looooong story). I know this is a big mistake and I shouldn't have but I was angry and I am really stressed right now. A bit later I get a reply from a 'friend' (actually more of an aqauaintance who was a friend of XP before I met him) who basically agreed with xp being a twat etc. Now my second stupid mistake due to being angry was to reply to her saying how her comment was in direct contrast to the things she posted on XPs wall last friday.
Now on reflection I was a bit catty with my remark and my issue is not at all about the fact she is more his friend than mine, because he has known her a lot longer than me and I would fully expect her to 'take his side' anyway, if it was about that. The issue I did have however is what this 'friend' (I'm going to call her V) said next. She completely denied that she had spoken to XP (on FB or otherwise) in months and denied that he was even a friend of his on FB.
So i linked to his wall where the convo was in plain site and she still denied it and said she could see nothing on there from her account and claimed she was at another friends last friday anyway so couldn't have posted anything. i said I didn't care if she had spoken to him (not up to me to say who can be friends) but said that I didn't like people lying to me and left it at that.
Half an hour later I get a pm from V saying she will give me her FB password and I can check for myself there are no messages from her on his wall. I ignore the pm but check XPs wall myself to see that everyone of her messages have now gone- to the point that XP and others comments make no sense now as they were replies to hers. Throughout the night I get several other pms saying she is not lying and I should check as there is nothing there.
I just don't get what she was thinking to go to that amount of effort
-be friends with a total twat- ok thats fine obviously, thats her choice
-lie to me by denying she is friends- well a bit weird, maybe trying not to hurt my feelings but don't expect me to be happy at being lied to
-lie about lying and delete any possible evidence that you might have lied- wtf does she think I'm so stupid I would forget I saw it before but now it was magically gone? why go to those lengths to cover it up? wouldn't you just admit it and say sorry (for lying)or even just say nothing and forget about it? I just don't get it.
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wigglytuff · 27/11/2012 12:42
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