Name changed to protect my RL identity.
I told my mother today I had booked a nurses appointment for next week and would be leaving work a bit early, my work is pretty flexible and I was just using this as an example of this. Her response was "Oh you shouldn't have told them that you do realise they'll think you are pregnant now." This is irritating because she said it like me being pregnant would be a bad thing, I've been trying for two and a half years and its not happening, in fact my bosses are aware of this and far more sympathetic and encouraging about it than she is. One of them spent a long time ttc and so he's always encouraging me to seek out all the medical advice and help thats available.
She knows I really want to get pregnant but she's always acting like I shouldn't try because it might be inconvienient. We're saving up for a new bathroom and she makes snide remarks about how we wont be able to have a new bathroom if we have children. As I would much prefer to have children than a new bathroom and have told her this I don't understand why she has this attitude of me getting pregnant being a bad thing.
Just to clarify I'm 28, we live in our own house and I'm married - not that it should make a difference but to my mum it would so its not even like we're not fulfilling some outdated criteria in her head. And she likes my DH and has even said she thinks he'd make a good dad. I'm starting to wonder though if she thinks I'd make a bad mum or something.
Sorry for the rambling post but we've always had a difficult relationship but we have got closer over the last few years but this is starting to cause a problem and I'm wondering if because of her behaviour in the past I am being too sensitive about this?
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quicknamechange5029 · 10/11/2012 21:24
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