my cousin is 17 and living with my mum while her mum is in hospital
she is overweight, my mum is seriously underweight
my sister (20) 2 brothers (15 and 21) and my step dad live there aswell
my mum controls buys and cooks the food
she has decided my cousin needs to be on a diet so she is cooking the usual food for everyone else and giving my cousin 'diet' food (salads etc) and smaller portions, she even told my cousin and brother they couldnt have a take away (while my mum and step dad were out for a meal) that my cousin was paying for out of her own money
my cousin hasnt agreed to this and doesnt want it but she wont listen
she is being unreasonable and controlling isnt she?and what should i do?
my cousin has no where else to go, her house has been gutted because my aunties mental health problems made her seriously neglect it and cousin is a student with part timr job so hasnt got money to move out and i cant afford for her to come here (theres 6 of us already)
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is my mum bu and very controlling?
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mamamibbo · 07/11/2012 10:09
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