Our son who is in year 2 struggles with his reading and writing and gets very frustrated when he doesn't know a word.
He also struggles with instructions aswell, if you ask him to get something from by the tv for example he doesn't think to look around for it, he looks to one side and says he can't find it. (he does want to find it, he does genuinely look).
I have noticed it more and more, especially since his younger brother can do things that he can't (I know all children are different and I don't make him feel bad he can't do it, just a comparison).
Anyway luckily his teacher this year is excellent and at parents evening (I had to work so couldn't go) his teacher raised concerns, and would like him to have an IEP and is going to arrange a meeting.
I really do think he is dyslexic from doing a lot of reading about it, but I know this is just what I think.
I said yesterday I was going to send a note to the teacher asking for a meeting to see how I can help him in the meantime, and just to discuss things before the meeting as I wasn't there to discuss it at parents evening.
My OH got all stroppy and said he doesn't think there is anything wrong with him and he is just lazy, and I should just teach him to read the way school teaches everyone!
If he is dyslexic then he can't just read the same way everyone can, and I want to find a way to help him read which he doesn't struggle with!
I feel like I'm on my own with this one, but I am going to find out the best way to help my son to learn, he is not lazy, he just can't do it the same way others can, I believe all children are different and you can't expect them to all learn the same way.
Anyway am I being unreasonable to think he is not lazy and he shouldn't be called that!
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littlemisspumpkin · 07/11/2012 09:15
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