I've endured almost 12 months of torture from a colleague who joined the company before I did. We both do the same job and it was supposed to get divided between us when I arrived. He wants to be my boss, he's very open about that - but they won't let him. As a result he hoards his work and tries to take over mine too. When I realised what was going on I started to keep my projects very close to my chest but every time he discovers I've done something on the quiet I get a lecture about being open and what's best for the team. Incidentally, my real boss is happy with my work.
Today I snapped.
There was an issue with one of my projects that I had contacted someone via email about, to try and fix. Some days later (today) my colleague overhears that this happened, and I get the usual lecture about copying him in. To which I retorted that it wasn't necessary, and that he never leaves me with anything to do. That's outspoken for me!
All quiet. Then this afternoon I am copied on an email from him, to our CEO and 4 others, none of whom were the person I'd told him was dealing with it, to say there's a problem and can it get sorted. I was fuming that he'd got involved but ready to let it drop when he started needling me with questions about it until I just exploded I DON'T CARE HOW THEY SORT IT OUT AND I AM SO HAPPY YOU ARE DEALING WITH IT SINCE YOU ARE SO MUCH BETTER QUALIFIED THAN I AM and stormed out of the room.
Feeling embarrassed since the office is now silent and I am hammering away at my keyboard and rather red. WIBU?
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MortimersRaven · 06/11/2012 09:28
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