Me and dh live in a 2 bed flat with our dd (18 months) and ds (5). It's ok for now but it won't be when dc's get older. I'm sick of our flat to be honest. The roof leaks and the agents are crap, we've had them out 4 times over the roof and each time the roof people say 'The whole roof needs doing but they won't pay us to do all of it' so they just patch it up as best they can. Every single winter it leaks in our room, the kitchen and the living room. Thankfully the kids room is ok because it's covered by a big tree so not much rain gets onto it. Our 90yr old neighbour's roof was so bad that, according to the roof guys, you could see into her living room from on top of the roof!
I'm sick of ringing them about it to be honest, they are useless. They keep saying they'll get it fixed when the weather allows, we got a notice through the other day saying that they'd be round today weather permitting. They never turned up, it was brilliant sunshine all day and it didn't rain last night. We were supposed to have an intercom fitted on all the flats, they started a month ago, they put in all the phones and said they'd be back to change the main front entrance door (it has no lock at all, you can just walk in) and give us all new keys, that was 3 weeks ago, we've not seen them since. Last winter they left us for a week with no boiler, no heating, no hot water in the middle of January when it was snowing outside and absolutely freezing.
At this point me and dh are just fed up with living here. We don't want to be here but we don't want to move into another rented house because we just feel like it's wasting money when we've been trying desperately to save to buy a house.
MIL has a 4 bedroom house where her, dh's brother and his wife and dh's other brother live. BIL and his wife are moving out in the new year and other BIL is off to uni. MIL has said to us that if we wanted we could move in and use that time to save up for a deposit on a house. I think this is so generous of her, I mean if I were her I'd be looking forward to having the house to myself haha!
Me and dh worked out that it would take us around 3ish years to save up a decent deposit. Also mil's is 10 mins from the uni I'm applying to (fingers crossed I get in!) and if we moved there the kids would have their own rooms whereas now they have to share a room.
It's all sounding really tempting. Dh is keen too. I just want an outside perspective on this really.
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FrenchRuby · 05/11/2012 20:29
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