My DD turned 2 this week and we had planned to have a small party this weekend - just family. Unfortunately the last two weeks have been a nightmare as she has been really very ill with a seemingly endless stomach bug, necessitating two A&E visits, two GP visits and me syringing fluids into her day and night to keep her from dehydration. She only just appears to be on the mend today and my DH and I are frazzled and exhausted. I warned my MIL (who has been wonderfully helpful throughout this period) that I thought we should put the party off until next week when DD has hopefully fully got her strength back and DH and I have had a chance to catch up on sleep, clean the house and prepare for having people round. She seemed to agree this was sensible.
We phoned to rearrange with everyone whereupon my BIL kicked off because he can't make it next week. DH said that was a shame but nonetheless this is what we are doing so perhaps he could pop round on Sunday to see her. He is now in a massive huff and is very 'upset' about it and will 'think about' whether he will come round to see her. In addition MIL is now upset on his behalf and is applying the emotional thumbscrews to get us to change our minds.
Seriously, am I being unreasonable/overly precious to change the date? It's a 2-year-old's party FFS, why does a grown man care so much about missing it, and why do he and MIL think his hurt feelings are more important than DD actually having a chance of enjoying her own party?!
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TheKurgan · 19/10/2012 22:53
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