He promised to take dc to the swimming pool this weekend as a reward for good behaviour all week.
He came home at 1pm today, horribly hungover, after a rare night out and staying with friends. He's been asleep in the sofa since two. Before faking asleep, he says the dc will be fine and he'll strike a deal with them to go another day.
They have been excited all weekend and behaved very well. If I let him sleep, we will miss the opportunity to go to the pool and they will be disappointed but part of me is cross that he think they are just little pawns to be bought off by a promise of an even better treat (this I what will be offered). I would like him to see how disappointed they would be when he doesn't keep his promise but this doesn't feel fair on the dc. If I wake him up and "make" him take us, I will be the evil one who has ruined his kip (I went out on Sat night and got home quite late, he woke me at 8am yesterday trying to find sports kit for dc1 and though he bought tea and toast up I would rather have had a bit more kip!
He does this quite frequently, promise one thing and then "buy" them off when he changes his mind. I'd rather he didn't promise anything at all.
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AIBU to let dh sleep even though he promised dc a trip out?
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SnortGlassesWatchAndSlacks · 14/10/2012 16:36
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