Today I really feel like DH has been having a pop all day.
DS ( not yet 6 months) was at nursery and they rang me saying he had a rash and they have a suspected case of measles. I ring DH, get him to collect DS and make a GP appointment. Obviously I am worried sick but I can't leave work. This in itself is upsetting.
I speak to DH after the GP appointment and he tells me it might be measles might not be, they can't call it but that DS is fine in himself and has no temperature. DH says he will pick me up from work as usual although I offer to get a cab so that he doesn't need to drag DS out. He insists.
I say "OK but pick me up 15 mins later than usual as I have a meeting that might run over and I dont want DS hanging around in the car"
He says "Well I would have thought you'd want to get out on time and see him if you cared about him"
I was really, really upset. It's hard leaving him, it's hard not being able to be the one to get him when he's ill.
Anyway we get through the rest of the evening fine but DH seems to be having a low level snipe at me several times. I ask him outright if there is a problem and he says "no sorry just stressed about DS". OK - Fine - we both are
Then 10 mins ago DH is playing on his PC and I am with DS. DS starts howling. DH comes in and says "Why is he crying? He's been fine all day with me" in a snarky tone of voice.
AIBU to really feel like that's a dig? I told DH that's how it felt to me and I was upset and he told me I was being stupid.
Gah am and :(
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DH thinks I am being over senstive and U but I don't think so
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catgirl1976 · 08/05/2012 19:38
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