Ok. Not a huge deal. Just a little annoyance. Two issues.
- DS made 2 Christmas lists: one for me and my family and one for ex and his family (it was his idea, btw). He told me today that apparently ex's mother told him that they bought him everything on the list. I haven't got a problem with that per se, but I think it's a bit wrong to tell the kid that he'll get everything he requested 3 weeks before actual Christmas. It's supposed to be a wish list, not a shopping list, as one poster said on another thread plus it taks away a lot magic from the anticipation etc. AIBU?
- My father, with whom I have a strained relationship, bought DD a doll for Mikolajki (which in Poland is celebrated on the 6th and it's like a mini-Christmas). I told him, quite a few times, that I already bought DD her first Corolle doll for Christmas and so he got her something else. Now he calls me today and wants to come with the doll (baby doll as well) on Saturday to give it to her. I feel I may be BU here, it's just that I really wanted to give DD her first doll and am annoyed that he totally disregarded what I told him.
So, AIBU? I realise none of this is a very serious matter, btw.