Now I love my mum but at 83 she is still a control freak and likes to feel she deals with property in 3 continents and keeps the family in order. I am fed up of going round there and being presented with a list of paperwork which she thinks is important and urgent which is usually neither and having to sit through hours of her wading through files getting panicky and being made to feel totally inadequate and guilty if I don't help her. She does not communicate electronically with anyone. She will not give up any responsibility. She will not see that spending hours when all I want to do is visit on a Sunday morning for a cup of tea and a social chat helps no one. For example today she is convinced it is important she organises someone to clean her gutters and get the moss off her roof tiles and and and and......I have my own household stuff to do. The files and chaos which is her paper work is completely unmanageable I just want to burn the lot. But, wait for it....she thinks she is organised!!!!!!
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funnyperson · 04/12/2011 11:39
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