Longtime lurker but driven to rage so need some perspective... or chants of leave the bastard
My (D)P and I are going through a bad patch. I am SAHM, we have various animals and an old house that needs a lot of looking after. He has been generally selfish for months; weekends for him are just that, every day is the same for me. He won't even get up in the night for DC on weekends so I haven't had a full nights sleep for weeks whilst he snores away. Promises he'll get things done such as fixing our heating but never does, when I get a man in I'm told off that we can't afford it. Many more examples but just trying to set scene.
We had a long standing engagement with his friends today (I don't know them well) but I have told him for days prior to this that I need more help and not to be treated like the unpaid maid. To cut a long story short I spent a lot of time yesterday and this morning preparing lunch to have with his friends today whilst he did nothing at all. When they arrived he didn't bother to help me out with conversation or offer drinks etc. I've been waiting on him and his friends whilst trying to sort out DCs. A couple of hours ago his friends suggested we go to our local pub which I agreed to. After 2 drinks I had to leave to put our chickens away so headed home with DCs. He then phoned me from the pub saying he wanted to eat dinner with his friends so wouldn't be back as he'd promised. I am livid. I now have to clear everything away from lunch despite him promising to, sort out DCs, and he promised he would cook me 'a lovely dinner' to say thanks for the effort I made at lunch.
AIBU to think he has no respect for me?
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wherehaveallthecowboysgone · 16/10/2011 18:14
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