Hi, sorry if this is long but I'm at a bit of a loss now.
My DD is now 15 and she is such a great kid, clever, polite and has a good group of friends, BUT confidence has always been something of an issue for her since maybe age 7 or 8 despite my praise, reassurance, encouragement etc. She has always worked on it with me and has improved massively over the years but this still affects her in a few ways especially with speaking or reading aloud/in class, answering questions etc.
She finds it difficult to put her hand up in class to answer a question even when she is sure of her answer. She says she hates her voice and blushes furiously but she still tries to do it sometimes. She says it's much better if she has had time to think it out, but if she is 'picked on' to answer a question instead of putting her hand up the answer vanishes out of her head, she feels put on the spot and can't think, she blushes even worse and feels humiliated
The above is being made worse since she started a new school this Sept by a situation with her English teacher, who is deaf and has some kind of microphone set up in class, and hearing aids. The teacher is apparently very good and gets most pupils through with an A, this has come from my DD herself and she enjoys the work, but the teacher seems to have a particular problem hearing my DD (there seems to be no issue at all hearing the other children) and makes her repeat answers over and over, which distresses my DD greatly. The teacher doesn't seem to realise the upset and humiliation she is causing.
My DD says she has always made sure her mouth is visible for lip reading and her voice clear and directed towards the microphone but this still happens. I suggested to my DD that she start sitting at the front, and she has but this has also made no difference.
AIBU to think maybe this teacher is just picking on her for some unknown reason, seeing as my DD does all she can to try and make sure she doesn't have to repeat anything?
WIBU to raise this issue with the teacher herself... and if not what should I say?
Me and DD have worked so hard on the confidence thing and I can see this setting her back already and also she is starting to dread a class she otherwise enjoys.
I have no idea what if anything I should do?
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lubeybooby · 04/10/2011 14:50
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