Hi all. Today walking back from nursery- my friends 4 year old daughter heard the call of the scrap metal men and promptly shouted out ''Gypos''. Her mum seemed to find this funny and laughed which led to the child saying it over and over again.
My 4 year daughter was looking at this child and I was worried that she would repeat what was being said so I told the child not to say these words as she would get into trouble at school if she said it on front of the teachers, the child continued to say it so I repeated that I didnt want my daughter to repeat these words.
Eventually her mum told her not to say it but I know for a fact that she was the one to tell her child these words.
I personally find this language offensive and racist, and the child could get into trouble with other children and indeed other adulys for using these words.
I would normally keep my mouth shut as its up to her how she brings up her child and I appreciate that everyone has different values and morals but I didnt like the fact that the other children were listening. To me its more offensive than swearing.
My friend now seems to be a bit angry with me and barely spoke to me the rest of the way home- I appreciate I may have embarrased her but didnt know how else to show my displeasure.
Was I wrong in correcting this child??
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Crazyfatmamma · 26/09/2011 19:49
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