I have gotten back from taking DS to see my nan today (therefore his great gran), where we went for lunch. I love my nan and want to see her as often as possible, especially as DS is her first DGGS. But shes ill - her memory is completely knackered :(
My aunty has had a problem before when she looks after my niece (not that IMO she should be looking after her, but anywho...) as she forgets she has fed her and gives her food constantly. My cousin now has some weight issues that are very much not helped by this.
Today she kept feeding my DS. I tried laughing and saying he wasnt hungry. And I tried telling her that he wasnt having food/was allergic to ice cream (!) and taking it off him. And i tried telling her that she was going to make him ill!! That he'd already eaten and she'd forgotten! Nothing works, she laughs like she is a naughty child and sneaks food to him. He walks out to the kitchen and comes back with two biscuits. She has some crazy ideas about healthy eating anyway, but the main problem is her memory. I would never leave DS alone with her, but even when I'm there its near impossible to stop her. And I'm not shy about telling her, that isnt the problem.
She wont visit my house, and doesnt leave the house too often any more (a few times a week but few social calls), so we have to go to her. But I feel the only thing I can do is stop visiting with DS... :( :( :(
PS want to emphasise I'm not being precious about junk food so will list what she gave/tried to give him today...
Cooked dinner, chicken and a sausage, veg, mash, gravy and yorkshire
Seconds from her cooked dinner
Apple crumble and custard
Straight after apple crumble - apple turnover with cream (this was the one we "fought" over, she was sneaking it straight into his mouth - he can feed himself! - and I was taking it off him and putting it in the bin)
A plain biscuit (thrown on floor and disposed of)
Two custard creams
An ice cream cornet (stern no. followed by opening of ice cream anyway, followed by me telling her he was allergic)
An apple
Another biscuit "for walking home"
DS is 1 next week by the way. Sorry for the huge post!!
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to think the only thing to do is not visit great-grandma...
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