Background : H and I have been married for 12 years and have 2 dcs, both still young. I am from another european country. Most of my family is there bar my parents who decided to come and live near me and the dcs.
My parents are going back to our country every other year for chirstmas, mainly so that my gran can spend christmas with family (They have a 'rota' with other family members).
I have always said I want to go back there too as my gran is getting old (over 90yo) and I never know if I will have the opportunity to spend another christmas with her 2 years after. I also want my dcs to have the opportunity to experience christmas there (slightly different ways than here) and remember it.
On the other year, we spend chirtmas here and he has 'free reign' to organize christmas with his family as it suits them. It usually means we spend the 24th with my parents and the 25~26th with his.
H is, once again, refusing to go. Doesn't like the travel, planes too crowded blabla. In 12 years he has been to my country 4 times, twice before dcs, twice at christmas (but has always been a battle).
AIBU to say this year, I don't care, I am going to spend christams with family. You decdide what you want to do (stay here or spend christmas with your W and dcs)
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AwayForChristmas · 10/09/2011 10:16
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