my partner and i split about yr ago, since we split his hygiene shall we say has been discusting. infact he makes me feel so sick i try and make xcuses so he cant come round. he works in a kitchen so youd think he would clean up but his hands are always black and his nails are discusting, he smells greasy and he just is gross. i feel so sorry for my 2 half yr old who he touches holds his hand, then my partner always asks for so many kisses when he leaves and i just cringe. and this evening he was over and he went to toilet but didnt wash his hands. soon as he goes i get my son change of clothes and baby wiped. or even a bath. ive had to stop my ex from coming in my home as i have to open all windows to let fresh air in and get rid of the smell. i really wish i was over reacting and this was an exageration but my ex really is this bad and i hate it. my son had 3 sickness bugs and 2 of them was close proximity after hed seen his dad, doctors told me germs from him wouldnt have made my son ill but im not so sure. ive tryd to leave hints but apart from saying 'have a shower' he just doesnt listen. i dont want to be rude but i dont know what else i can do. :(
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