about my weight
im a size 16 and weigh 13 st currently
i was a normal weight as a child i was healthy and active,i danced from been 3 till i was 17,when i was 16 my weight went down to 7 stone and i was stick thin,i had stopped eating,i had a lot of problems at home,my parents were in a violent realationship i was very unhappy,things settled down and i went back to a healthy weight
i slowly put weight on over the years and it went up and up till i was 14 and a half stone ,then i stuck there,im 32 now and have been a 16 for about the past 8 years
i havnt been happy with my weight and have tried weightwatchers,slimming world ETC
i started Zumba a few months ago and have finally realised excersize is the key to me losing weight,dont no why its took me this long to realise ! i have lost a stone and a half
the problem is the negative attitude of my family and my MIL
i have put up with comments from my dad over the years he s calls me tubby and prods my stomach when im at his house,my mum also cant understand why im over weight as she s always been a size 10 but we have different builds and she can eat anythign she wants,when it comes to my family i can retaliate, i tell my dad to mind his own buisness and that he s not perfect,i tell my mum she doesnt no what its like to be over weight as she never has been.
ive been having CBT to try and stop the negative thoughts i have about my body image
ive been with my OH for 4 years we have a 16 month DS,my MIL is a sarcastic nasty woman who says things to me on the sly when no one else is in hearing distance,she has picked fault with my house so many times i dont listen anymore
she has had nasty little digs in about my weight loads of times,last week my ILS were visiting and i went to asda with MIL and DS,she picked up a top off the sale rail and shouted "this will suit you with you been BIG ",i told OH when we got home and he didnt say anything
it was brought up in conversation last night and i told him its getting me down his mother getting sly digs in about my weight,he said i should "get over it and deal with it " as ive had it for years off my family and should be used to it
he s at work today and i feel so depressed about it,he s usually a really understanding and supportive person
i feel like not eating again, i felt really proud of myself for losing 1 and a half stone but oviously its not enough
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cheesespread · 04/09/2011 10:30
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