Where to start.
Really dont know where to start.
Hubby died 6 yrs ago sep. Not long after me and sister stopped talking. The reason because I didnt think she gave me any support over this time. But I missed her. I love her she is my sis and at the end of it I always think my best mate.
But if there is a bloke I feel I get dumped. And left. Except when she wants something. or has no-one.
When we made up 2 or so yrs ago, I introduced her to my new circle of friends.
It was great having my sis back. Son and niece were happy. Mum was, I was for once. Sis was.
Then last year new bloke. And literally I felt like I got dumped again. No contact unless at a family occasion.
Due to finances I havent gone out as much, as I have done last year.
My friends and my sis, have asked me numerous times over the last 10 months or so to go out. Apart from a handful of times, I have been unable due to cash flow. Friends have understood, sis seems put out. They have therefore gone out without me.
Through FB I found out sis had finished with new bloke. And started seeing someone else.
And 2 weeks ago informed me she was moving to Cornwall (me and hubby planned to move there). Cause this is where the new fella lives (old school friend). And told me son and i could visit.
Cornwall holds very dear memories. I dont really know if its a place I can revisit so easily. Without it prompting very big happy memories and what once was and is now. I tried to explain this, but also said that my son was welcome to visit them at anytime during school holidays.
Anyway tonight was supposed to be a night out for me, best friend and sis. Texted sis all day No answer.
Anway 2 girls who we go out with have fell out, sis has been going out with the other girl. While I am torn between best friend and sis and the other girl.
In between all this my Best friend for the last 18 months has had a very on off relationship with a married fella. Who has beat her up numerous times. She has 2 months ago started seeing someone else. And tonight also told me she started see married man again 3 weeks ago - but has finished it for good this time.
So tonight has gone rather like this ----
Started like this a few drinks in home town with best friend (text from sis, saying she was out with new fella, would see us later) taxi to next town,
See sis in pub, her fella, gives me an up and down kind of look, (yes am overweight) Everytime I tried to speak, he averted his eyes and spoke to sis and My friend instead.
Goe's outside for fag, back in sis nowhere to be seen. Found them huddled in corner in a couples clique, with the friend who isnt speaking to my best friend and her fella. So I just got abit stroppy ( I thought if you wanted us with you, you would off stayed where you were). So I said see you we are going. My sister and I have had a very at volatile relationship. And I know My big gob would of opened and I would of seen my arse.
I tried explaining to my friend, saying I didnt want to stay where we were, but wanted to go back to my home town. Cause I didnt want any trouble or arguing ect.
Best friend responded saying a fella she had fancied for ages was out she wanted to stay. I said stay, and I will go back. I just didnt want to stay, cause I know me and my sis will argue.
So we went a couple of pubs down with the intention of ordering a taxi. And cue the beat up married man, Who she proceeds to try and snog. While current bf is in same pub.
I was stood there aghast, basically held my hands in the air, and said Ive had enough. Cant stand the crap, bullshit blardy blardy blah and left.
Im sat here, feel totally shit, cause I walked on my mate. But I cant take anymore Bullshit off folk.
I am so sick of folking saying one thing and doing a complete opposite, is it me. And yes I am single - probably because I'm an overweight gobby cow- although tonight I have been very quiet. Apart from trying to explain to my friend why I wanted to leave town. Cause I didnt want an argument, but ended up walking out on her.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
I am pissed, but need you to tell me stop being a bitch (Long)
15 replies
dontbullshitme · 29/08/2011 00:23
OP posts:
MadamDeathstare ·
29/08/2011 01:21
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
TheSecondComing ·
29/08/2011 08:44
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.